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This is a made-up example for a fictional couple, Maya and Alex, based on a 4,812-message WhatsApp chat. Your own report has the same sections, written from your messages. Analyze your chat →
Maya & Alex
2026-01-04 → 2026-09-20 · 260 days
Lots of shared humour, plans and daily check-ins. Trust around friends and coworkers is the main thing pulling the score down.
Toxicity score
0 = kind and respectful · 100 = pervasive abuse
Alex is affectionate, but questions about Maya's whereabouts and 'you always / you never' blame come up repeatedly, especially in March and June.
Maya is mostly warm and direct. She sometimes answers hurt with sarcasm, but rarely attacks Alex personally.
Communication stats
FULL + CHARTS| Maya (you) | Alex | |
|---|---|---|
| Messages | 2310 (48%) | 2502 (52%) |
| Texts first | 131 | 97 |
| Typical reply | 3.5 min | 11 min |
| Emojis | 612 | 388 |
| Questions asked | 402 | 356 |
| Avg words | 9 | 7 |
Green flags
- Shows up for big moments · Alex · support
Alex celebrates Maya's wins quickly and warmly.
“i'm so proud of you, you got this all along” · 2026-03-15
- Comes back to repair · Alex · apology
After most arguments Alex returns within a day with an apology and an offer to talk.
“i'm sorry i snapped, i'm here if you want to talk” · 2026-03-18
- Names her feelings · Maya · care
Maya says clearly what hurt, which gives the relationship a real chance to repair.
“it hurt. i felt like you didn't trust me” · 2026-03-13
- Thanks the small things · Maya · appreciation
Everyday gratitude runs through the chat on both sides, most of all from Maya.
“thanks for asking, that means a lot” · 2026-03-17
Red flags
- Checking where she is · Alex · controlling
Alex often asks who Maya is with and asks her to stop talking to specific people.
“who were you with really” · 2026-03-12
“don't talk to him again please” · 2026-03-16
- Blame in absolutes · Alex · guilt tripping
Arguments often turn into 'always' and 'never', which makes Maya defend her whole character instead of one moment.
“you never make time for me” · 2026-03-19
- Feelings waved away · Alex · gaslighting
When Maya says she is hurt, Alex sometimes calls it overreacting before apologising later.
“you're overreacting, it's not a big deal” · 2026-03-13
- Sarcasm when hurt · Maya · disrespect
Maya occasionally replies with sarcasm instead of saying what she needs.
“oh sure, because I'm always the problem” · 2026-06-02
Alex · partner profile
Alex seems deeply invested and expressive, but anxiety about losing Maya sometimes comes out as control.
- Love language: Words of affirmation
- Frequent 'miss you', 'proud of you' and pet names; Alex also asks for reassurance in words.
- Attachment style (estimated): Anxious (leaning)
- Worry spikes when replies are slow and calms down after reassurance.
Maya · your profile
Maya communicates openly and keeps her own friendships; she withdraws a little when she feels mistrusted.
- Love language: Quality time
- Most of her enthusiasm is about plans, dinners and weekends together.
- Attachment style (estimated): Secure
- She states needs clearly and returns to connection after conflict.
Emotional tone over time
improvingWarm and playful in winter, a rough patch in March around trust, recovering in April–May, a second dip in June, and steadier since July.
Two people clearly choosing each other, who need to stop auditing each other's group chats.
The affection and repair in this chat are real and consistent, and the mood has improved since June. If Alex can turn worry into asking for reassurance instead of checking up, and Maya can say what she needs without sarcasm, the trend points to a steadier, more trusting relationship.
- ♥Agree on what reassurance looks like on busy days (a quick 'home safe' text goes a long way).
- ♥Replace 'you always / you never' with one specific moment and one feeling.
- ♥Keep the weekly date night: the warmest stretches of this chat follow it.
Advice
- •Say the need under the sarcasm: 'I want you to trust me with my friends.'
- •Keep naming your feelings early. It works.
- •When you feel anxious, ask for reassurance rather than asking who she's with.
- •Pause before 'you're overreacting' and ask what hurt instead.
- •Talk about boundaries with friends and coworkers when calm, not mid-argument.
- •Celebrate the repairs you already do well.
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