Frequently asked questions

FlagMyChat is an AI WhatsApp chat analyzer for couples. You upload an exported WhatsApp chat between you and your partner and get a report with a toxicity score for each person, red and green flags with example messages, communication stats, a partner profile, a compatibility score and a playful prediction of where the relationship may be heading.

Open the chat in WhatsApp, tap the menu, choose Export chat → Without media, and save the .zip file. Then open FlagMyChat, drop the zip in, pick which name is you, choose Free or Full, enter your email and view your report. The whole process takes about two minutes.

No, FlagMyChat never stores your chat or your report. The zip is opened inside your browser and never uploaded. Only the message text needed for the analysis is sent over HTTPS to the AI, processed in memory, and discarded. We keep only payment records and an email send log.

The Free preview is 1 per day, reads only your newest 50 messages with a basic AI after a short ad, and shows scores, the top 3 red and green flags and basic stats. The Full analysis costs $3.99 once, reads your whole chat with an advanced AI and adds every flag, emotional tone over time, detailed profiles for both people, charts, a full future prediction and advice.

The full analysis costs $3.99 (USD) per chat. It is a one-time payment for one analysis, paid through PayPal or a debit/credit card via PayPal. There are no accounts and no subscriptions.

The toxicity score is a 0–100 estimate for each person of how much unhealthy communication appears in the chat: 0–15 means kind and respectful, 16–35 occasional friction, 36–60 recurring unhealthy patterns, 61–80 frequent control, contempt or manipulation, and 81–100 pervasive abuse or threats. Each score comes with a short reason.

It looks for controlling behaviour, jealousy, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, disrespect, stonewalling and threats, and shows example messages for each flag it finds. It also looks for green flags such as care, support, apologies, appreciation and affection, because a fair read needs both.

Yes. FlagMyChat understands chats in many languages, including mixed-language chats and languages typed in the Latin alphabet. The report is written in English and quotes keep their original language with an English translation.

Yes. FlagMyChat reads the chat exports from both WhatsApp for iPhone (a .zip with _chat.txt inside) and WhatsApp for Android (a .zip or a .txt file). Export the chat "Without media" for the smallest file.

No. FlagMyChat analyzes one-to-one chats between you and one partner only. Group chats are not supported in this version.

The Full analysis reads your whole chat with an advanced AI, so it is far more reliable than the Free preview, which sees only about the last 50 messages and is labelled low accuracy. In both cases the results are AI estimates from text only, meant for entertainment and self-reflection, not professional or psychological advice.

You can retry with the same payment up to three times without uploading again. If the analysis still cannot finish, FlagMyChat refunds your $3.99 to PayPal automatically.

No. FlagMyChat does not contact anyone except you: the report is shown in your browser and emailed only to the address you enter. You should only upload chats you are part of.

If the chat shows signs of abuse, threats or coercive control, the report shows support and helpline contacts, including findahelpline.com, which lists free support lines in over 130 countries. If you are in danger, contact local emergency services straight away.

FlagMyChat is for adults aged 18 or older who want to reflect on a WhatsApp conversation they are part of.