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CHAT ANALYSIS, NOT GUESSWORK

WHATSAPP RELATIONSHIP CHAT ANALYZERALL U
NEED IS
TRUTH.

Upload your WhatsApp export and see how your partner really talks to you. Toxicity, red flags, green flags, compatibility and where you're heading. Read by AI, private by design.

Free daily preview · Full report $3.99 · Works in any language

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HOW IT WORKS

Four steps, nothing kept

FlagMyChat analyzes an exported WhatsApp chat between you and your partner in about two minutes. The zip stays on your device; only the chat text is analyzed, in memory, and never stored.

01  EXPORT

Get the chat file

In WhatsApp open the chat, tap ⋮ (Android) or the contact name (iPhone), choose Export chat → Without media.

02  DROP IT IN

Opened on your device

Your browser unzips the file and reads only the chat text. Photos, voice notes and the zip itself never leave your phone.

03  PICK YOURSELF

Say which name is you

The other person becomes “partner”. Both sides are read, so you get a fair picture of how you both show up.

04  READ IT, THEN IT IS GONE

Nothing is stored

You get scores, flags, quotes and a prediction on screen and as a PDF by email. Close the tab and the chat and report disappear. We keep only payment records and an email send log, never your conversation.

START HERE

Drop the chat in

WhatsApp → open the chat → ⋮ / contact name → Export chat → Without media. Save the .zip, then drop it below. Step-by-step guide

Agreements

Your zip never leaves this device

We open the zip in your browser, skip photos and media, and read only the chat text. When you start the analysis, only the text needed (50 newest messages for Free, the whole chat for Full) is sent over HTTPS to our AI, processed in memory, and then discarded. We never store your chat or your report.

How to export a WhatsApp chat →
THE REPORT

What the analysis tells you

Every report covers both people: a 0–100 toxicity score each, red flags (controlling, jealousy, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, disrespect) and green flags (care, support, apologies, appreciation) with example messages, communication stats, a partner profile, a 0–100 compatibility score and a future prediction.

Free preview compared with the full analysis
FeatureFree previewFull analysis · $3.99
Messages analyzedNewest 50Whole chat
AI modelBasic AIAdvanced AI: deeper reading of tone and context
Toxicity score (each person)✓ low accuracy✓ full accuracy
Compatibility score✓✓ + trend
Red flags & green flagsTop 3 eachFull list with quotes
Partner profileShortDetailed + your profile
Communication statsBasicFull + charts
Emotional tone over timeNo✓
Future predictionOne lineFull, with tips
Advice for both of youNo✓
PDF report by email1-page summaryMulti-page, no watermark
PriceFree · 1 per day · short ad$3.99 one-time
FAQ

Questions people ask

What is FlagMyChat?

FlagMyChat is an AI WhatsApp chat analyzer for couples. You upload an exported WhatsApp chat between you and your partner and get a report with a toxicity score for each person, red and green flags with example messages, communication stats, a partner profile, a compatibility score and a playful prediction of where the relationship may be heading.

How do I analyze my WhatsApp chat with my partner?

Open the chat in WhatsApp, tap the menu, choose Export chat → Without media, and save the .zip file. Then open FlagMyChat, drop the zip in, pick which name is you, choose Free or Full, enter your email and view your report. The whole process takes about two minutes.

Is it safe? Do you store my chat?

No, FlagMyChat never stores your chat or your report. The zip is opened inside your browser and never uploaded. Only the message text needed for the analysis is sent over HTTPS to the AI, processed in memory, and discarded. We keep only payment records and an email send log.

What is the difference between the Free and Full analysis?

The Free preview is 1 per day, reads only your newest 50 messages with a basic AI after a short ad, and shows scores, the top 3 red and green flags and basic stats. The Full analysis costs $3.99 once, reads your whole chat with an advanced AI and adds every flag, emotional tone over time, detailed profiles for both people, charts, a full future prediction and advice.

What does the toxicity score mean?

The toxicity score is a 0–100 estimate for each person of how much unhealthy communication appears in the chat: 0–15 means kind and respectful, 16–35 occasional friction, 36–60 recurring unhealthy patterns, 61–80 frequent control, contempt or manipulation, and 81–100 pervasive abuse or threats. Each score comes with a short reason.

What red flags does the analyzer look for?

It looks for controlling behaviour, jealousy, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, disrespect, stonewalling and threats, and shows example messages for each flag it finds. It also looks for green flags such as care, support, apologies, appreciation and affection, because a fair read needs both.

Does it work with chats in other languages?

Yes. FlagMyChat understands chats in many languages, including mixed-language chats and languages typed in the Latin alphabet. The report is written in English and quotes keep their original language with an English translation.

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